You can be ahead of 99% of people financially by:

Join me as we explore simple money habits and intentional living, all shared in a relaxed, no-pressure way.

5/8/20243 min read

a close up of a one dollar bill
a close up of a one dollar bill

Most people assume you need a high income, a genius investment strategy, or some kind of secret hack to win with money.

I didn’t have any of that.

I didn’t grow up wealthy.

I didn’t have a six-figure salary.

I didn’t hit a lucky break.

What I did have was a willingness to do the boring, unsexy things consistently—long before they felt rewarding.

Over time, those boring decisions stacked. Quietly. Almost invisibly. And eventually, they put me in a position where money stopped being the main source of stress in my life.

Here’s exactly what I did—and what I still do today.

1. I Drove Paid-Off Cars (Even When It Was Embarrassing)

For years, I drove cars that weren’t impressive.

They weren’t Instagram-worthy.

They didn’t signal success.

But they were paid off.

No car payment meant I could save and invest aggressively without feeling squeezed every month. When something broke, I fixed it. When it got old, I kept driving it anyway.

I watched people upgrade cars every few years while wondering why they never felt ahead financially.

The math was simple:

No car payment = margin.

Margin = freedom.

2. I Cooked Most of My Meals at Home

I’m not extreme about this, but I cook about 80% of my meals.

This wasn’t about being cheap. It was about control.

Eating out constantly is one of the fastest ways to bleed money without realizing it. A few $15–$20 meals here and there add up shockingly fast.

Cooking at home saved money, yes—but it also saved time, improved my health, and removed decision fatigue.

Boring? Absolutely.

Effective? More than almost anything else.

3. I Bought Used and Let Other People Pay the Depreciation

Early on, I stopped caring if things were new.

Cars. Furniture. Gear. Tools.

I let someone else take the initial depreciation, and I bought things that were still perfectly functional for a fraction of the cost.

The money I didn’t spend on “new” went straight into investments.

This one habit alone quietly compounds for years.

4. I Invested Every Month—No Matter What Was Happening

I didn’t try to time the market.

I didn’t wait for “the perfect moment.”

I invested every single month—during good markets, bad markets, scary headlines, and boring stretches where nothing seemed to happen.

That consistency mattered far more than intelligence.

Most people wait for confidence.

I just built a system and followed it.

5. I Didn’t Inflate My Life Every Time I Made More Money

Every raise, bonus, or new income stream came with a choice.

Upgrade everything…

Or keep living the same and invest the difference.

I chose the second option almost every time.

This is where most people lose. They finally make more money—and immediately lock themselves into higher expenses.

I delayed upgrades on purpose. That gap between income and expenses became the engine that built everything else.

6. I Took the “Free Money” That Almost Everyone Ignore

One of the easiest wins I ever made was moving my savings into a high-yield savings account.

No extra work.

No extra risk.

Just better interest.

Keeping cash in a regular checking or savings account is quietly costing people hundreds—sometimes thousands—per year.

This is one of the lowest-effort improvements anyone can make. I’ll link some of the best options here.

7. I Said No to Most Purchases (Without Feeling Deprived)

I don’t buy everything I can afford.

Most of the time, I pause.

I wait.

I ask if I actually need it.

Usually, the urge passes.

This habit alone rewires how you think about money. You stop reacting emotionally and start acting intentionally.

It’s not about never spending—it’s about spending on purpose.

8. I Tracked Where My Money Actually Went

You can’t improve what you don’t measure.

Once I started tracking my spending, everything changed. I could see patterns. Leaks. Habits I didn’t even realize I had.

This wasn’t about budgeting every dollar—it was about awareness.

Awareness leads to better decisions without willpower.

The Truth About Winning With Money

None of this is exciting.

It won’t get you clicks.

It won’t impress strangers.

It won’t feel fast.

But it works.

Money rewards people who can do simple things for a long time.

That’s how I built real financial security.

That’s how I reduced stress.

That’s how I created freedom.

Not by doing more—

but by doing the basics better, and longer, than most people are willing to.